Harassment Is Not a “Normal” Part of Divorce. It might feel like this is just how divorces go—messy, hostile, chaotic. But harassment and aggression are not acceptable, and they’re not something you have to tolerate. When abusive behavior is ignored, it can set the tone for a future filled with fear, unfair settlements, and ongoing emotional distress.

Lake County family law attorney, Alan Lenczycki, shares what you need to know if you or someone you care about is facing divorce in the context of domestic violence. Divorce is already one of life’s most emotionally draining experiences. But when domestic violence is involved, it can quickly turn into a matter of safety—and urgency.

The Firearms Restraining Order Act is a new Illinois law that lets you ask the court to temporarily take away firearms from someone in your family or household if they pose a danger to themselves or others. This isn’t about punishing someone—it’s about preventing violence before it occurs.

An Order of Protection is a court order designed to protect individuals from domestic violence. If you or a loved one is experiencing domestic violence, an Order of Protection can provide crucial safety and legal protection. This legal document prohibits a specific individual (the respondent) from contacting, harassing, or harming you (the petitioner).